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PORTA POTTY

Life can be a rollercoaster ride and it is difficult to control how we want things to turn out . As humans we look out for ways to put our lives out of harms way but it's either things get messier or better . Most people have made poor choices and are stuck with the consequences and one of these poor choices is the exchange of sex for money. There are different names that are given to ladies that sleep around for money. Some are called prostitutes and the high class ones are called ' ARITOS ' these ones are the kind of ladies that are highly patronized by politicians and moguls but they don't seem to be any different from prostitutes anyway. Being a sex worker according to some ladies that I have interviews come with alot of risks and in order to make money, any lady that is going into the sex trade must be ready for whatever that is involved. According to Jane (real name withheld)  ' This sex work has fed my family and sent my younger ones to school,  but the...

Firm Feminism

Before I got to know more about feminism I have always had doubts about the kind of feminism that is practiced by women in Nigeria. Let me first say that feminism and gender equality are two worlds apart . Feminism is all about women's right,  to fairness in treatment at the work place( especially in salary) ,  marriage,  rights to vote,  rights to speak up for what she believes in without being labelled 'woman talk'  , feminism is about speaking up for voiceless women eg on rape cases and domestic violence. Nigerian women( most of them)  need to be educated on what feminism is about. I think the pain of being in terrible relationships has robbed them of their ability to think in a straight and logical way. So they come out on a mission to find the peace that was lost intentionally ,  using what they have to convince me that I do not need a man to be happy,  I am all I need,  that there is a sisterhood that is always available to open the...

CONTROL

There are certain things that cannot be controlled. I cannot control how people should think of me but I can control how I can think of them. Why should I allow a person's perception about me bother me so much,  when I have lived with me all my life,  quarrelled wiith me,  rejoiced with me,  prayed with me and have gotten naughty with me😊 Only me should allow me absorb what I should absorb. Maybe I  need to be cautioned,  I need to be told that where I am headed is going to lead me to my water loo.  Yes,  those that love you won't let you go astray . They are the ones who take your case to God in prayer. They pray for you because they want your creator to take charge over your life before it gets damaged beyond repair (death)  . The creator is a silent worker,  He does not turn the world upside down when He wants to act upon a request.  He takes His time to convince you on why the way you are going is not the best. But ...

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Hello,  Welcome to my personal blog,  where I will be sharing issues that matter in today's world.  My name is Emem; a mother, wife, motivator, writer,  communication expert and most importantly a great listener.   I am here to serve you .If you would like to share an issue of concern please feel free to reach me via email : ememfuro7@gmail.com or through any of my social media handles : @ememfuro "Let's Connect" Am waiting to read from you ❤❤❤